Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Knuckle Case for iPhone 4/4s & 5 For Sale

iPhone 4/4s RM 50 & iPhone 5 RM60

Condition: 100% brand new and high quality.
Easy to install.
No tools needed.
Made of high quality plastic. Plating metallic surface.
Protects the handset from impact and dust damage.
Custom made to fit iPhone 4 / 4S / 5.
Give your iPhone a brand new look.
These make awesome gifts.
Protect your phone with this stylish premium high-quality case.
This high-quality case is thick and durable for optimal protection.
Protect the phone from scratches and dust.
Color designed to give your phone a unique style.
Give complete access to all functions of the phone.
Compatible with: Apple iPhone 4 / 4S / 5
All Colors available as seen in photo including Green
Weight: 20 g

012-6858584 for order & delivery
Thank you :)

Friday, January 25, 2013

Panggilan London!


rasanya sudah sampai masa untuk menghidupkan blog ini semula
24 Januari 2013 aku kembali ke perantauan..

ps, semoga perjalananku ini dipermudahkan

Monday, July 23, 2012

Did i marry to the right person?

a woman asked a common question
'how do I know if I married the right person?'

here's the answer
EVERY relationship has a cycle
in the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner
you anticipated their call, wanted their touch
and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit)

falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard

in fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience 
you didn't have to DO anything 
that's why it's called 'falling' in love... 
because it's happening TO YOU

people in love sometimes say, 'i was swept off my feet' 

think about the imagery of that expression
it implies that you were just standing there; 
doing nothing, and then something came along and happened

falling in love is easy 

it's a passive and spontaneous experience
but after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades
it's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship
slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), 
touch is not always welcome (when it happens), 
and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts

the symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship 

but if you think about your marriage 
you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love 
and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage

at this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 

'did I marry the right person?' 
and as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had 
you may begin to desire that experience with someone else
this is when marriages breakdown
people blame their spouse for their unhappiness 
and look outside their marriage for fulfillment

extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes 

infidelity is the most obvious
but sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, 
or abusive substances

but the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage

it lies within it
i'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else
you could

and TEMPORARILY you'd feel better

but you'd be in the same situation a few years later
because (listen carefully to this):



SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience

it'll NEVER just happen to you
you can't 'find' LASTING love 
you have to 'make' it day in and day out 
that's why we have the expression 'the labor of love'
because it takes time, effort, and energy
and most importantly, it takes WISDOM
you have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work

love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'

not just a feeling.
remember always this:

'god determines who walks into your life

it is up to you to decide who you let to walk away,
who you let to stay, and who you refuse to let go'

ps, those who are still single may learn something from here..
those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship